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Spanking Theatre's avatar

I agree entirely with this. Activities that provide gratification without mental effort are hazardous. I'm keenly aware of this as an erotica writer. Unearned pleasure obtained without any need to imagine, with full certainty of a pay-out rush seems like an abuse of the reward dispenser built into our primaeval brains. The hazard is not moral corruption, but the indulgence of choosing the easy buzz over the pursuit of the hard. Negative avoidant behaviour can become a perilous habit.

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Secret Escort's avatar

Yes quite! Porn provides pleasure without effort, put like that it’s easy to see how damaging it can potentially be to those with little self discipline

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JT's avatar

I find your latest article very interesting and balanced. While I thought of the negative moral implications of porn, I never thought of that other impacts - performance, conversation, foreplay, etc.

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Ejvfgjvc's avatar

Shut it whore

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Anyeri's avatar

Very well written!!!

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Prepper-girl's avatar

In my opinion porn is destructive unless both parties are consenting. As someone in a marriage for ten years I do appreciate your perspective on this subject and others as I have been reading your blog. Reading your material actually gave me some ideas that I knew I wasn’t doing to spice up my relationship. Thank you for that. I hope you’ll subscribe to me too because I think we can share different perspectives on two different subjects. Have a great day and thank you again.

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